“Profile of Reuben”
A profile is a brief description of a person usually written in a resume, article, or document. If we were to write a profile on ourselves, we’d be sure to include all the good qualities. But what would be written by those who know us best? The NIV Life Application Bible includes a profile on many biblical characters. The story of Reuben is told in Genesis 29-50. His profile is listed here to help us evaluate our life as we look at his.
Parents are usually the best judges of their children’s character. Jacob summarized the personality of his son Reuben by comparing him to water (Gen. 49:3,4). Except when frozen, water has no stable shape of its own. It always shapes itself to its container or environment.
Reuben usually had good intentions but seemed unable to stand against a crowd. His instability made him hard to trust. He had both private and public values, but these contradicted each other. He went along with his brothers in their action against Joseph while hoping to counteract the evil in private. The plan failed.
Compromise has a way of destroying convictions. Without convictions, lack of direction will destroy life. Reuben’s sleeping with his father’s concubines showed how little he had left of the integrity he had displayed earlier in life.
How consistent are your public and private lives? We may want to think they are separate, but we can’t deny that they affect each other. What convictions are present in your life at all times? How closely does Jacob’s description of his son – “turbulent as the waters” – describe your life?
The character of a person is being made and molded each day by the decisions they make or following the wishes of others. You choose every day the type of person you want to be and the legacy you’ll leave behind. Your personal story is being written by your or someone else. What is it? What do you want it to be and what steps are you willing to take to become the person you want to be? Sacrificing certain things can be a virtue, not a penalty.
Pastor Carnes